Children and mate choice

Childhood is destiny, say psiconanalíticas theories in his writings. Santiago Ramirez, a prestigious Mexican psychoanalyst, a book title that phrase. It is true childhood is a period of training and determining the life of all human beings.

In early childhood leads to the identity, self-concept, models of love, ways of being male and female, as well as taught in the family and society about what is expected of the feminine and masculine. Parents, are the representatives of the social in that time of our early life. With them, we face the unconditional love, affection also conditioned to the education of the passions, feelings and stifle our children's fondest wishes of exclusivity, membership, be just for them and nothing else.

When these conflicts and infantile longings are not resolved adequately, we go through life looking for partners that we solve more intimate deficiencies deposited in the soul. We would then be unique in the life of the couple, who we guess our needs as when we were kids, that with a single mourn, the mother responds to the demand. We also hope that all situations are resolved, looking for a powerful supplier and when this is not achieved, we feel very helpless.

Children in the couple's fate is also offered as a reflection of parental models that are provided to children both in the field and in the love that develops between two adults. For the child the most important in your life, your existence.

These models need to be rethought learned not to repeat the frustrating and hurtful aspects that we feel to live, otherwise, we'll repeat our beloved or love of my life, without realizing that obey more a sigh than a child adult reality.

In Cecreto electronic material we have so you can improve your emotional life, with the couple and the importance of bonding with children and their implications.

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